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Hey fellow mama, I’m Julie! I was born and raised in France and moved to Los Angeles when I was eighteen years old. I’ve always been drawn to a life of glamour and adventure, and I’m blessed to say that I am living it!

Once I met the love of my life and became a mama to my beautiful son, Oliver Kingsley, I encountered the new territory of being a mother feeling incredibly alone. Navigating the ways of motherhood without my own mother and my mother-in-law was much harder than I’d ever dreamed of. 

I had so many questions and fears. I couldnโ€™t find that gentle and reassuring voice we all crave when we become a mother.

Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents

This is my why.
My family.

My fiancรฉ, Kyle, and my little ones, Oliver and Zoe are my world.

They are the reason why I’ve created this space for mothers to connect,
share and talk about whatever we want.

Right now, I am processing on our devastating loss of our son, Blake. You can read more about this story by clicking here.

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Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
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Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
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We experience love and we experience loss. Without love there wouldnโ€™t be grief and without grief, there wouldnโ€™t be love. On each side of grief resides LOVE. 

When it all feels a little overwhelming, remember that whichever mountain you are climbing, there is love on the other side. 

 Love is the healing of grief, and grief is what makes love devastatingly difficult.

We canโ€™t protect ourselves from love, neither can we protect ourselves from grief. So love like you would for lifetimes to go โค๏ธ
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We experience love and we experience loss. Without love there wouldnโ€™t be grief and without grief, there wouldnโ€™t be love. On each side of grief resides LOVE. When it all feels a little overwhelming, remember that whichever mountain you are climbing, there is love on the other side. Love is the healing of grief, and grief is what makes love devastatingly difficult. We canโ€™t protect ourselves from love, neither can we protect ourselves from grief. So love like you would for lifetimes to go โค๏ธ
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Please stop making fun of HORMONES. ๐Ÿ™โ 
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Mocking a woman going through incredible hormonal changes; pregnancy, pms, menopause etcโ€ฆ is not a laughing matter. โ 
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We donโ€™t have to mock what we may not understand or not experience ourselves. โ 
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โ€œArgh itโ€™s her hormones againโ€ - that might be true but hormones are very much real and can amplify frustration, anxiety or depression when a woman is left misunderstood while not supported during hormonal shifts. โ 
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๐Ÿ“ฃ We canโ€™t cancel culture hormones... ๐Ÿ“ฃโ 
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Without hormones you wouldnโ€™t be here. ๐Ÿฅฐโ 
โ 
Learn more about my experience with motherhood at www.themommycodes.com!โ 
โ 
#hormones #happyhormones #hormonesupport #femalehormones #balancedhormones #naturopath #candidmotherhood
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Please stop making fun of HORMONES. ๐Ÿ™โ  โ  Mocking a woman going through incredible hormonal changes; pregnancy, pms, menopause etcโ€ฆ is not a laughing matter. โ  โ  We donโ€™t have to mock what we may not understand or not experience ourselves. โ  โ  โ€œArgh itโ€™s her hormones againโ€ - that might be true but hormones are very much real and can amplify frustration, anxiety or depression when a woman is left misunderstood while not supported during hormonal shifts. โ  โ  ๐Ÿ“ฃ We canโ€™t cancel culture hormones... ๐Ÿ“ฃโ  โ  Without hormones you wouldnโ€™t be here. ๐Ÿฅฐโ  โ  Learn more about my experience with motherhood at www.themommycodes.com!โ  โ  #hormones #happyhormones #hormonesupport #femalehormones #balancedhormones #naturopath #candidmotherhood
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Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
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Beautiful memorable family time with my boo & my babies at @alexander_stefanski and @natyvignali wedding ๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’
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We experience love and we experience loss. Without love there wouldnโ€™t be grief and without grief, there wouldnโ€™t be love. On each side of grief resides LOVE. 

When it all feels a little overwhelming, remember that whichever mountain you are climbing, there is love on the other side. 

 Love is the healing of grief, and grief is what makes love devastatingly difficult.

We canโ€™t protect ourselves from love, neither can we protect ourselves from grief. So love like you would for lifetimes to go โค๏ธ
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We experience love and we experience loss. Without love there wouldnโ€™t be grief and without grief, there wouldnโ€™t be love. On each side of grief resides LOVE. When it all feels a little overwhelming, remember that whichever mountain you are climbing, there is love on the other side. Love is the healing of grief, and grief is what makes love devastatingly difficult. We canโ€™t protect ourselves from love, neither can we protect ourselves from grief. So love like you would for lifetimes to go โค๏ธ
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Please stop making fun of HORMONES. ๐Ÿ™โ 
โ 
Mocking a woman going through incredible hormonal changes; pregnancy, pms, menopause etcโ€ฆ is not a laughing matter. โ 
โ 
We donโ€™t have to mock what we may not understand or not experience ourselves. โ 
โ 
โ€œArgh itโ€™s her hormones againโ€ - that might be true but hormones are very much real and can amplify frustration, anxiety or depression when a woman is left misunderstood while not supported during hormonal shifts. โ 
โ 
๐Ÿ“ฃ We canโ€™t cancel culture hormones... ๐Ÿ“ฃโ 
โ 
Without hormones you wouldnโ€™t be here. ๐Ÿฅฐโ 
โ 
Learn more about my experience with motherhood at www.themommycodes.com!โ 
โ 
#hormones #happyhormones #hormonesupport #femalehormones #balancedhormones #naturopath #candidmotherhood
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Please stop making fun of HORMONES. ๐Ÿ™โ  โ  Mocking a woman going through incredible hormonal changes; pregnancy, pms, menopause etcโ€ฆ is not a laughing matter. โ  โ  We donโ€™t have to mock what we may not understand or not experience ourselves. โ  โ  โ€œArgh itโ€™s her hormones againโ€ - that might be true but hormones are very much real and can amplify frustration, anxiety or depression when a woman is left misunderstood while not supported during hormonal shifts. โ  โ  ๐Ÿ“ฃ We canโ€™t cancel culture hormones... ๐Ÿ“ฃโ  โ  Without hormones you wouldnโ€™t be here. ๐Ÿฅฐโ  โ  Learn more about my experience with motherhood at www.themommycodes.com!โ  โ  #hormones #happyhormones #hormonesupport #femalehormones #balancedhormones #naturopath #candidmotherhood
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Yes, routine is very important with babies and kids.โ  โ  BUT... ๐Ÿ‘€โ  โ  Learn and adapt to bring that routine with you, anywhere and anytime! โ  โ  A baby doesnโ€™t force you to stay home and not be able to do anything. โ  โ  They are very adaptable, they feed off your energy and love the adventure too! โ  โ  It is harder to expose an older child to changes than it is when theyโ€™re young; like flying or traveling, like dinnerโ€™s out and about. โ  โ  ๐Ÿ“ฃ A routine is not a mold that canโ€™t expand! ๐Ÿ“ฃโ  โ  Youโ€™re out and about and itโ€™s nap time? Teach your child to nap and soothe at the same time but in a different environment! โ  โ  Example: Try a stroller or carrier. โ  โ  Sometimes just putting over your shoulder a little muslin swaddle (obviously away and not close to their face please) can recreate a calming moment and fall asleep. โ  โ  It can be as surprising for you and for your baby to learn that their needs can be met at all times and still have a life! โ  โ  And sometimes throwing the towel and heading back to your comfy nest (if you can) is fine too! โ  โ  But the big idea that I'm trying to share here is you need to have the confidence that you and your baby can adapt and experience together. ๐Ÿ’“ โ  โ  What do you think?? โ  โ  #losangelesblogger #themommycodes #candidmotherhood #getoutside #buildingroutines
Yes, routine is very important with babies and kids.โ  โ  BUT... ๐Ÿ‘€โ  โ  Learn and adapt to bring that routine with you, anywhere and anytime! โ  โ  A baby doesnโ€™t force you to stay home and not be able to do anything. โ  โ  They are very adaptable, they feed off your energy and love the adventure too! โ  โ  It is harder to expose an older child to changes than it is when theyโ€™re young; like flying or traveling, like dinnerโ€™s out and about. โ  โ  ๐Ÿ“ฃ A routine is not a mold that canโ€™t expand! ๐Ÿ“ฃโ  โ  Youโ€™re out and about and itโ€™s nap time? Teach your child to nap and soothe at the same time but in a different environment! โ  โ  Example: Try a stroller or carrier. โ  โ  Sometimes just putting over your shoulder a little muslin swaddle (obviously away and not close to their face please) can recreate a calming moment and fall asleep. โ  โ  It can be as surprising for you and for your baby to learn that their needs can be met at all times and still have a life! โ  โ  And sometimes throwing the towel and heading back to your comfy nest (if you can) is fine too! โ  โ  But the big idea that I'm trying to share here is you need to have the confidence that you and your baby can adapt and experience together. ๐Ÿ’“ โ  โ  What do you think?? โ  โ  #losangelesblogger #themommycodes #candidmotherhood #getoutside #buildingroutines
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Yes, routine is very important with babies and kids.โ  โ  BUT... ๐Ÿ‘€โ  โ  Learn and adapt to bring that routine with you, anywhere and anytime! โ  โ  A baby doesnโ€™t force you to stay home and not be able to do anything. โ  โ  They are very adaptable, they feed off your energy and love the adventure too! โ  โ  It is harder to expose an older child to changes than it is when theyโ€™re young; like flying or traveling, like dinnerโ€™s out and about. โ  โ  ๐Ÿ“ฃ A routine is not a mold that canโ€™t expand! ๐Ÿ“ฃโ  โ  Youโ€™re out and about and itโ€™s nap time? Teach your child to nap and soothe at the same time but in a different environment! โ  โ  Example: Try a stroller or carrier. โ  โ  Sometimes just putting over your shoulder a little muslin swaddle (obviously away and not close to their face please) can recreate a calming moment and fall asleep. โ  โ  It can be as surprising for you and for your baby to learn that their needs can be met at all times and still have a life! โ  โ  And sometimes throwing the towel and heading back to your comfy nest (if you can) is fine too! โ  โ  But the big idea that I'm trying to share here is you need to have the confidence that you and your baby can adapt and experience together. ๐Ÿ’“ โ  โ  What do you think?? โ  โ  #losangelesblogger #themommycodes #candidmotherhood #getoutside #buildingroutines
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