Mourning Your Baby: When Resentment and Grief Take Over

Losing a child is a devastating experience that can leave a profound impact on a parent's life. The jour[...]

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Exploring Trauma Healing: Strategies and Resources

Trauma can have a profound impact on our lives, leaving lasting emotional and psychological scars. Howev[...]

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Supporting Someone in Grief: What to Say and What to Avoid

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Must haves for when my toddler is sick

My Must Haves When My Toddler is Sick

SICK TODDLER? I am in the raging phase of my child building up his immune system and let’s just say, it keeps you on your toes. Having a sick toddler is not fun, but I have some items to help. A lot of moms have mentioned they’ve also been dealing with more sickness since the pandemic, I think it’s safe to say we are all going through some kind of roller coaster with our children’s well being; From mask wear to nose swabs to speech delays to online learning and more…It’s been daunting and you’[...]

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Communicating With Our Children’s BIG Feelings

We all know as parents that one of the hardest aspects of parenting is managing our children’s emotions and feelings, especially when they are explosive. Many of us don’t think about how “everything started” or where it stems from. We judge adults too easily and yet, we expect children to act like one. It doesn’t make sense and that’s where our young ones are falling short at understanding themselves.

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My Go-To Christmas Picks for Toddlers Oliver is going to be spoiled this Christmas!! When is he not?! Here's my Christmas shopping list for my little toddler. From Melissa and Doug toys, to driving his own keep, to indoor play ideas! Click the links below to shop for your little one! #1. Construction Plate and Utensils #2. Classic Fairytale Pop-up Book #3. 3D Art Coloring Kit #4. Gabby's Dollhouse #5. 12V Kids Ride-On Truck Car with Parent Remote Control #6. Paw Patrol[...]

The Mommy Codes is a motherhood and lifestyle blog about healing


One of the hardest things with grief, besides grieving itself, is allowing ourselves to heal. Healing may sound close to impossible at first; A betrayal, a delusion, complete absurdity while suffocating from a pain that takes over our world. It can stop time, make every little part of daily life seem like a mountain to climb. Yet it can transform what you thought was problematic into a kindergarten math equation… WILL I EVER FEEL NORMAL AGAIN? Nothing matters but the love that now needs to b[...]