• Home
  • About
    • Motherhood Coaching
    • Facebook Group
  • Work With Me
  • Blog
  • Contact
  • Search

The Mommy Codes

  • Home
  • About
    • Motherhood Coaching
    • Facebook Group
  • Work With Me
  • Blog
  • Contact
  • Search
Category

Mommy Codes

stillbith, prenatal bereavement, my labor story, our invisible loss, stillbirth survivor, motherhood, the mommy codes, motherhood, julie barzman
08 Oct 2021
Mommy Codes, Pregnancy Codes

STILLBIRTH & PREGNANCY LOSS – MY LABOR STORY

  STILLBIRTH - IS NOT A TOPIC I EVER THOUGHT I WOULD BE WRITING ABOUT. I predicted taking you along right until the end of my pregnancy, introducing you to a new little person and telling you everything about my labor story - my foreseeable and predictable ups-and-downs of a mother of two. With a heavy heart, I am not telling you the story I so ho[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon1
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
15 Aug 2021
Baby Codes, Mommy Codes

TALKING ABOUT PERINATAL BEREAVEMENT

  TRIGGER WARNING: PREGNANCY LOSS This is my first podcast in French, and my first podcast where I discuss this very difficult subject; perinatal bereavement. This is the name for the experience of parents facing pregnancy loss. Thank you very much Hélène on @parentsclub_official for giving me the opportunity to open up and share my emotions a[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon0
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
04 Aug 2021
Mommy Codes, Pregnancy Codes

WHAT I WOULD DO DIFFERENTLY DURING PREGNANCY

I'm going to go straight to the point with this one. I have been thinking for months and months what I could've done differently during my pregnancy that would've (maybe) made the experience and the postpartum recovery easier. We're all different but there are things, hands down, that I wish I had known during pregnancy for how to handle postpartum.[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon0
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
03 Jun 2021
Lifestyle Codes, Mental Health Codes, Mommy Codes

Advice To My Younger Self

Read this blog post for a look into advice to my younger self. My birthday recently passed and I found myself thinking of all the advice I wish my younger self knew.

Read More
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
03 Feb 2021
Mommy Codes, Toddler Codes

PARENTING: GETTING ON THE SAME PAGE

Discover everything evolving around parenting styles, why it is important and the best way to apply it in your everyday life routine.

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon2
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
27 Jan 2021
Lifestyle Codes, Mommy Codes, Pregnancy Codes

POSTPARTUM DEPLETION

  First and foremost, I'd like to stress that I am no expert. I am not a doctor and or professional in the medical field. I am a French woman living in America who went through postpartum depletion, had to self-diagnose myself, eventually received a diagnosis from an actual doctor and here I am telling you about my journey. Take what can serve[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon1
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
18 Jan 2021
Baby Codes, Mommy Codes, Pregnancy Codes

21 BABY MUST-HAVES

Let's talk about my 21 baby must-haves because it’s pregnancy #2. This time around, I’m getting minimal baby stuff that are my babymust-haves and are a little easier on the eye. I have to admit that some baby furniture, pillows, loungers and bouncers….made my eyes and head hurt. Please note this list doesn’t include playtime options -[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon0
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
10 Dec 2020
Mommy Codes, Pregnancy Codes

6 PREGNANCY ‘DONT’S’ I WILL NEVER REPEAT

Here are 6 Pregnancy 'Dont's' that I will NEVER repeat! Don't ask Dr. Google and Dr. Know-it-all-without-PHDs. Bye bye Dr. Google and the fake doctors of the world. I feel like I need to put this as NUMBER ONE of my 6 pregnancy 'dont's' that I will never repeat because omgeee has it been liberating to not Google each symptom that coul[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon2
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
27 Apr 2020
Mommy Codes, Pregnancy Codes

DEALING WITH POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION

  Dealing with postpartum depression? The baby blues is a very common reaction after childbirth, especially among new moms. It usually manifests itself in the form of mood swings, anxiety, crying spells, and difficulty sleeping. Most women have postpartum depression during the first two or three days after delivery, and it may last up to two weeks.[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon5
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
20 Apr 2020
Mommy Codes, Toddler Codes

GENTLE PARENTING: THE BASICS

If you don't know by now, I'm a huge advocate for Gentle Parenting and I'm going to explain why I strongly believe it matters so much. I call it 'Gentle Parenting' because it's popular enough by now for most people to recognize what it is. Although 'Gentle Parenting' to me is also 'Conscious Parenting,' I'd even consider it an awakened type[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon3
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
26 Feb 2020
Lifestyle Codes, Mommy Codes

SELF WORK: 10 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Self-work, loving yourself, staying aligned, let alone healing can be a long road. Self-work is hard and some feelings that arise from it can be completely unwelcome, but it is what makes us grow. Our perception and acceptance of all feelings can really play a role on how we navigate our lives. For most people, the first thing they comment[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon2
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
27 Sep 2019
Mommy Codes

FOR THE MOM WHO FEELS ALONE

First and foremost, I want to say that I've felt alone. Probably the loneliest I had ever been, although, I had everything I needed. I should've been the happiest human on earth, but creating a human comes with a lot of different emotions. Emotions filled with happiness, and other ones that are not always easy to admit, understand or simply n[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon0
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
11 Jun 2019
Lifestyle Codes, Mommy Codes

HOW A CHILD CHANGES YOUR RELATIONSHIP

I've been asked this question perhaps two weeks into having a baby. It's a question that comes up over and over again and I've been adamant to answer it. Within all of our life changes, I couldn't yet explain how our relationship had changed. It had, of course, but there was so much work for us to do in multiple aspects, that I was waiting to feel more[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon1
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
13 Mar 2019
Mommy Codes, Pregnancy Codes

TOP 10 GOOGLE SEARCHES

Google has been a best friend to a lot of us. I mean, no wonder the FBI looks into people's Google search history when they're working on cases; it reveals a lot about you! Imagine what a pregnant woman is possibly researching, and that I'm sure you've looked up yourself if you're pregnant or once were. Firstly: don't trust everything Google[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon1
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
10 Mar 2019
Lifestyle Codes, Mommy Codes

GUIDE FOR NEW MOMS TO STOP COMPARING THEMSELVES

Having a baby and being a mother has involuntarily entered me in a competition game I had no idea about... I've done a good job in my life at protecting myself in enjoying daily life goals, succeeding and working with others without having to outrun someone. I've never compared my skills. Now, today, I've gotten into an uncontrollable spiral where I[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon1
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
28 Jan 2019
Mommy Codes

BECOMING A NEW MOM AND DEALING WITH THE LOSS OF A PARENT

Losing a parent and a sibling is the hardest thing I've ever had to go through. Becoming a mom without my mom in my life is the second hardest thing, and I deal with it daily. I had a pretty good grip on my grief before becoming a mom, but I realized that not only does grief come in different stages, it also comes in different shapes throughout your[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon0
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
10 Nov 2018
Lifestyle Codes, Mommy Codes

GOOD NIGHT SKIN CARE ROUTINE

I've tried a lot of products...like A LOT... and this is my hands-down best before-bed skincare routine that I'm not ready to give up on. Here are my favorite items and some that I use one or twice a week to keep up with texture, hydration & glow. STEP 1 (EVERY NIGHT-DAY) Elemis collagen balm - spread on your face and with a hot cloth, then rem[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon6
Julie Barzman, Lifestyle Blog, About The Mommy Codes, Contact The Mommy Codes, Affiliate Links, Candid Motherhood, Mom Blogger, Motherhood Blog, Mom Blogger Los Angeles, Los Angeles Mom Los Angeles Mom Blog, Los Angeles Mom Blogger, Motherhood Coaching Coaching LA Motherhood Coaching, Autism Awareness, Autistic Children, Moms Blog, LA Mom Blog, Mommy Blogger, Mom Life, Parenting, Parenting Tips, Los Angeles Parents
09 Nov 2018
Mommy Codes

AUTISM: GUEST MOM OPENS UP

andLIFE OF A MOM Being a mom is hard - we've all figured that out by now - but being an Autism mom is even harder. Autism is something that I wasn't educated enough on and wanted to support Jormari, who is our guest mom blogger for this post! She recently found out her daughter was autistic and started her journey to shed light on the subject, find s[...]

Read More
everleigh-commen-icon0
Previous
Next
Hi, I’m Julie.

Hi, I’m Julie.

I'm living my most authentic life as a mom, as a partner, as a multi-cultural learner, and sharing every moment with you along the way.

I’m joining you from

I’m joining you from

Los Angeles, United States

Follow On Instagram

Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with Zoë taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠
⁠
I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠
⁠
Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠
⁠
#whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with Zoë taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠ ⁠ I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠ ⁠ Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠ ⁠ #whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
19 hours ago
View on Instagram |
1/4
Episode 7 ✨ BelleMaternity Podcast ⁠
⁠
In this episode, I share my (and my partner’s) story of loss, grief, and how our third child, Zoe came to be. I share openly, honestly, and truly – some details that I’ve not discussed before here on The Mommy Codes.⁠
⁠
Follow along, as Jey and I discuss how to navigate through grief, loss, and how to keep on living.⁠
⁠
Link in bio to listen!⁠
⁠
#motherhood #candidmotherhood #perinatalloss #griefjourney #themommycodes
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
Episode 7 ✨ BelleMaternity Podcast ⁠ ⁠ In this episode, I share my (and my partner’s) story of loss, grief, and how our third child, Zoe came to be. I share openly, honestly, and truly – some details that I’ve not discussed before here on The Mommy Codes.⁠ ⁠ Follow along, as Jey and I discuss how to navigate through grief, loss, and how to keep on living.⁠ ⁠ Link in bio to listen!⁠ ⁠ #motherhood #candidmotherhood #perinatalloss #griefjourney #themommycodes
19 hours ago
View on Instagram |
2/4
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special. #rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special. #rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
4 days ago
View on Instagram |
3/4
March is Rainbow Baby Awareness Month 🌈 and it also happens to be Zozo’s birthday tomorrow

Very little people knew I was pregnant with my rainbow baby last year, on this day I was anxiously getting ready to get induced and praying to come home with her in my arms…

If I had to describe what she taught me? Stillness in the present moment. 

Too painful to look back, too uncertain to look forward. I felt like a balloon floating through each moment, supporting my constant “meditative state” - if I’d unravel, I’d notice it was always after getting lost into doing things while putting little thought into it; “coming back” to the present moment as I lost track of time was the most uncomfortable. So many questions rushing through my mind “did she kick?” “When was the last time I felt her” and the anxiety and uncontrollable worries would rise up…I eventually recognized the agonizing pattern and decided to put thought and connection to everything I did, even loading the dishwasher. I was PRESENT. 

One thing I will tell you, no matter how present you are, bringing home a new baby is life changing and rocks the boat no matter how connected you are to all of your desires and surroundings. You have to learn to appreciate the rocking. I had never been so thankful for sleepless nights that weren’t because of grief; You don’t have to be on the other side to fully appreciate the life experience you are having NOW. It sure “helped” me find joy in things that could’ve easily irritate me but that is in a sense, the dark gift of grief, it will teach you kindness and perspective on how everything is éphémère as we say in French; Short lived. 

So everything becomes precious. It’s hard to not live on the other side of grief; fear. I will admit I still work on that every day. The fear drives me to love harder…but step by step I am learning to see love to love harder.

I love you Zoë. You are fruition of the courage we put into taking a chance despite overwhelming fear… and one year later, with perspective and stillness, I can see clearly the hope you have given all of us. 

#rainbowbaby #rainbowbaby🌈 #stillbirthawareness #momanddaughter #momtruth #parentingblogger #oneyearold
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
March is Rainbow Baby Awareness Month 🌈 and it also happens to be Zozo’s birthday tomorrow Very little people knew I was pregnant with my rainbow baby last year, on this day I was anxiously getting ready to get induced and praying to come home with her in my arms… If I had to describe what she taught me? Stillness in the present moment. Too painful to look back, too uncertain to look forward. I felt like a balloon floating through each moment, supporting my constant “meditative state” - if I’d unravel, I’d notice it was always after getting lost into doing things while putting little thought into it; “coming back” to the present moment as I lost track of time was the most uncomfortable. So many questions rushing through my mind “did she kick?” “When was the last time I felt her” and the anxiety and uncontrollable worries would rise up…I eventually recognized the agonizing pattern and decided to put thought and connection to everything I did, even loading the dishwasher. I was PRESENT. One thing I will tell you, no matter how present you are, bringing home a new baby is life changing and rocks the boat no matter how connected you are to all of your desires and surroundings. You have to learn to appreciate the rocking. I had never been so thankful for sleepless nights that weren’t because of grief; You don’t have to be on the other side to fully appreciate the life experience you are having NOW. It sure “helped” me find joy in things that could’ve easily irritate me but that is in a sense, the dark gift of grief, it will teach you kindness and perspective on how everything is éphémère as we say in French; Short lived. So everything becomes precious. It’s hard to not live on the other side of grief; fear. I will admit I still work on that every day. The fear drives me to love harder…but step by step I am learning to see love to love harder. I love you Zoë. You are fruition of the courage we put into taking a chance despite overwhelming fear… and one year later, with perspective and stillness, I can see clearly the hope you have given all of us. #rainbowbaby #rainbowbaby🌈 #stillbirthawareness #momanddaughter #momtruth #parentingblogger #oneyearold
6 days ago
View on Instagram |
4/4

Recent Posts

  • Episode 7 of Belle Maternity | My Perinatal Loss and Rainbow Baby

    March 14, 2023
  • what to ask your doctor, pregnancy codes, mommy codes, baby codes, los angeles blogger, the mommy codes

    Your Pregnancy Checklist

    March 1, 2023
  • Mom Coaching with Stephanie Rosenfield | The Mommy Codes

    Mom Coaching with Stephanie Rosenfield

    February 27, 2023

Search

Categories

Archives

Find the Mommy Codes on Instagram @juliebarzman

Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with Zoë taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠
⁠
I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠
⁠
Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠
⁠
#whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with Zoë taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠ ⁠ I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠ ⁠ Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠ ⁠ #whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
19 hours ago
View on Instagram |
1/5
Episode 7 ✨ BelleMaternity Podcast ⁠
⁠
In this episode, I share my (and my partner’s) story of loss, grief, and how our third child, Zoe came to be. I share openly, honestly, and truly – some details that I’ve not discussed before here on The Mommy Codes.⁠
⁠
Follow along, as Jey and I discuss how to navigate through grief, loss, and how to keep on living.⁠
⁠
Link in bio to listen!⁠
⁠
#motherhood #candidmotherhood #perinatalloss #griefjourney #themommycodes
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
Episode 7 ✨ BelleMaternity Podcast ⁠ ⁠ In this episode, I share my (and my partner’s) story of loss, grief, and how our third child, Zoe came to be. I share openly, honestly, and truly – some details that I’ve not discussed before here on The Mommy Codes.⁠ ⁠ Follow along, as Jey and I discuss how to navigate through grief, loss, and how to keep on living.⁠ ⁠ Link in bio to listen!⁠ ⁠ #motherhood #candidmotherhood #perinatalloss #griefjourney #themommycodes
19 hours ago
View on Instagram |
2/5
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special. #rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling… She absolutely can 💕 Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special. #rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
4 days ago
View on Instagram |
3/5
March is Rainbow Baby Awareness Month 🌈 and it also happens to be Zozo’s birthday tomorrow

Very little people knew I was pregnant with my rainbow baby last year, on this day I was anxiously getting ready to get induced and praying to come home with her in my arms…

If I had to describe what she taught me? Stillness in the present moment. 

Too painful to look back, too uncertain to look forward. I felt like a balloon floating through each moment, supporting my constant “meditative state” - if I’d unravel, I’d notice it was always after getting lost into doing things while putting little thought into it; “coming back” to the present moment as I lost track of time was the most uncomfortable. So many questions rushing through my mind “did she kick?” “When was the last time I felt her” and the anxiety and uncontrollable worries would rise up…I eventually recognized the agonizing pattern and decided to put thought and connection to everything I did, even loading the dishwasher. I was PRESENT. 

One thing I will tell you, no matter how present you are, bringing home a new baby is life changing and rocks the boat no matter how connected you are to all of your desires and surroundings. You have to learn to appreciate the rocking. I had never been so thankful for sleepless nights that weren’t because of grief; You don’t have to be on the other side to fully appreciate the life experience you are having NOW. It sure “helped” me find joy in things that could’ve easily irritate me but that is in a sense, the dark gift of grief, it will teach you kindness and perspective on how everything is éphémère as we say in French; Short lived. 

So everything becomes precious. It’s hard to not live on the other side of grief; fear. I will admit I still work on that every day. The fear drives me to love harder…but step by step I am learning to see love to love harder.

I love you Zoë. You are fruition of the courage we put into taking a chance despite overwhelming fear… and one year later, with perspective and stillness, I can see clearly the hope you have given all of us. 

#rainbowbaby #rainbowbaby🌈 #stillbirthawareness #momanddaughter #momtruth #parentingblogger #oneyearold
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
March is Rainbow Baby Awareness Month 🌈 and it also happens to be Zozo’s birthday tomorrow Very little people knew I was pregnant with my rainbow baby last year, on this day I was anxiously getting ready to get induced and praying to come home with her in my arms… If I had to describe what she taught me? Stillness in the present moment. Too painful to look back, too uncertain to look forward. I felt like a balloon floating through each moment, supporting my constant “meditative state” - if I’d unravel, I’d notice it was always after getting lost into doing things while putting little thought into it; “coming back” to the present moment as I lost track of time was the most uncomfortable. So many questions rushing through my mind “did she kick?” “When was the last time I felt her” and the anxiety and uncontrollable worries would rise up…I eventually recognized the agonizing pattern and decided to put thought and connection to everything I did, even loading the dishwasher. I was PRESENT. One thing I will tell you, no matter how present you are, bringing home a new baby is life changing and rocks the boat no matter how connected you are to all of your desires and surroundings. You have to learn to appreciate the rocking. I had never been so thankful for sleepless nights that weren’t because of grief; You don’t have to be on the other side to fully appreciate the life experience you are having NOW. It sure “helped” me find joy in things that could’ve easily irritate me but that is in a sense, the dark gift of grief, it will teach you kindness and perspective on how everything is éphémère as we say in French; Short lived. So everything becomes precious. It’s hard to not live on the other side of grief; fear. I will admit I still work on that every day. The fear drives me to love harder…but step by step I am learning to see love to love harder. I love you Zoë. You are fruition of the courage we put into taking a chance despite overwhelming fear… and one year later, with perspective and stillness, I can see clearly the hope you have given all of us. #rainbowbaby #rainbowbaby🌈 #stillbirthawareness #momanddaughter #momtruth #parentingblogger #oneyearold
6 days ago
View on Instagram |
4/5
Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with Zoë taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠
⁠
I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠
⁠
Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠
⁠
#whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
juliebarzman
juliebarzman
•
Follow
Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with Zoë taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠ ⁠ I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠ ⁠ Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠ ⁠ #whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
7 days ago
View on Instagram |
5/5
  • Home
  • About
  • Work With Me
  • Blog
  • Contact
  • Search

© 2022 The Mommy Codes Site Powered by Unicorn Marketing Co