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Chinese Style Fish with Lotus Roots Recipe
21 Nov 2022
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Chinese Style Fish with Lotus Roots Recipe

This delicious fish recipe has simple ingredients, only takes a few minutes to cook, and will impress the whole family!

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Must haves for when my toddler is sick
04 Mar 2022
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My Must Haves When My Toddler is Sick

SICK TODDLER? I am in the raging phase of my child building up his immune system and let’s just say, it keeps you on your toes. Having a sick toddler is not fun, but I have some items to help. A lot of moms have mentioned they’ve also been dealing with more sickness since the pandemic, I think it’s safe to say we are all going through some kind[...]

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19 Jan 2022
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4 Must Reads for Gentle Parenting

These are my go-to resources for all things gentle parenting. From communicating to a toddler, to learning the basics of sleep training, and all of the basics!

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14 Nov 2018
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HOLIDAY GIFTS FOR PREGNANT WOMEN

There's a serious baby boom! Or is it just me? Not just me...I'm sure you feel the same way! Therefore, I figured with Christmas coming and all these mamas to be, it would be fun to do a holiday gift list for all the preggers girls out there because they need extra love! HOLIDAY GIFTS FOR YOUR PREGNANT LADY In this blog are a few of my favorite thi[...]

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09 Nov 2018
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AUTISM: GUEST MOM OPENS UP

andLIFE OF A MOM Being a mom is hard - we've all figured that out by now - but being an Autism mom is even harder. Autism is something that I wasn't educated enough on and wanted to support Jormari, who is our guest mom blogger for this post! She recently found out her daughter was autistic and started her journey to shed light on the subject, find s[...]

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Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with ZoĂ« taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠
⁠
I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠
⁠
Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠
⁠
#whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
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Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with ZoĂ« taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠ ⁠ I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠ ⁠ Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠ ⁠ #whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
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Episode 7 ✹ BelleMaternity Podcast ⁠
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In this episode, I share my (and my partner’s) story of loss, grief, and how our third child, Zoe came to be. I share openly, honestly, and truly – some details that I’ve not discussed before here on The Mommy Codes.⁠
⁠
Follow along, as Jey and I discuss how to navigate through grief, loss, and how to keep on living.⁠
⁠
Link in bio to listen!⁠
⁠
#motherhood #candidmotherhood #perinatalloss #griefjourney #themommycodes
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Episode 7 ✹ BelleMaternity Podcast ⁠ ⁠ In this episode, I share my (and my partner’s) story of loss, grief, and how our third child, Zoe came to be. I share openly, honestly, and truly – some details that I’ve not discussed before here on The Mommy Codes.⁠ ⁠ Follow along, as Jey and I discuss how to navigate through grief, loss, and how to keep on living.⁠ ⁠ Link in bio to listen!⁠ ⁠ #motherhood #candidmotherhood #perinatalloss #griefjourney #themommycodes
20 hours ago
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Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special. #rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
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Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special. #rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
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March is Rainbow Baby Awareness Month 🌈 and it also happens to be Zozo’s birthday tomorrow

Very little people knew I was pregnant with my rainbow baby last year, on this day I was anxiously getting ready to get induced and praying to come home with her in my arms


If I had to describe what she taught me? Stillness in the present moment. 

Too painful to look back, too uncertain to look forward. I felt like a balloon floating through each moment, supporting my constant “meditative state” - if I’d unravel, I’d notice it was always after getting lost into doing things while putting little thought into it; “coming back” to the present moment as I lost track of time was the most uncomfortable. So many questions rushing through my mind “did she kick?” “When was the last time I felt her” and the anxiety and uncontrollable worries would rise up
I eventually recognized the agonizing pattern and decided to put thought and connection to everything I did, even loading the dishwasher. I was PRESENT. 

One thing I will tell you, no matter how present you are, bringing home a new baby is life changing and rocks the boat no matter how connected you are to all of your desires and surroundings. You have to learn to appreciate the rocking. I had never been so thankful for sleepless nights that weren’t because of grief; You don’t have to be on the other side to fully appreciate the life experience you are having NOW. It sure “helped” me find joy in things that could’ve easily irritate me but that is in a sense, the dark gift of grief, it will teach you kindness and perspective on how everything is Ă©phĂ©mĂšre as we say in French; Short lived. 

So everything becomes precious. It’s hard to not live on the other side of grief; fear. I will admit I still work on that every day. The fear drives me to love harder
but step by step I am learning to see love to love harder.

I love you Zoë. You are fruition of the courage we put into taking a chance despite overwhelming fear
 and one year later, with perspective and stillness, I can see clearly the hope you have given all of us. 

#rainbowbaby #rainbowbaby🌈 #stillbirthawareness #momanddaughter #momtruth #parentingblogger #oneyearold
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March is Rainbow Baby Awareness Month 🌈 and it also happens to be Zozo’s birthday tomorrow Very little people knew I was pregnant with my rainbow baby last year, on this day I was anxiously getting ready to get induced and praying to come home with her in my arms
 If I had to describe what she taught me? Stillness in the present moment. Too painful to look back, too uncertain to look forward. I felt like a balloon floating through each moment, supporting my constant “meditative state” - if I’d unravel, I’d notice it was always after getting lost into doing things while putting little thought into it; “coming back” to the present moment as I lost track of time was the most uncomfortable. So many questions rushing through my mind “did she kick?” “When was the last time I felt her” and the anxiety and uncontrollable worries would rise up
I eventually recognized the agonizing pattern and decided to put thought and connection to everything I did, even loading the dishwasher. I was PRESENT. One thing I will tell you, no matter how present you are, bringing home a new baby is life changing and rocks the boat no matter how connected you are to all of your desires and surroundings. You have to learn to appreciate the rocking. I had never been so thankful for sleepless nights that weren’t because of grief; You don’t have to be on the other side to fully appreciate the life experience you are having NOW. It sure “helped” me find joy in things that could’ve easily irritate me but that is in a sense, the dark gift of grief, it will teach you kindness and perspective on how everything is Ă©phĂ©mĂšre as we say in French; Short lived. So everything becomes precious. It’s hard to not live on the other side of grief; fear. I will admit I still work on that every day. The fear drives me to love harder
but step by step I am learning to see love to love harder. I love you ZoĂ«. You are fruition of the courage we put into taking a chance despite overwhelming fear
 and one year later, with perspective and stillness, I can see clearly the hope you have given all of us. #rainbowbaby #rainbowbaby🌈 #stillbirthawareness #momanddaughter #momtruth #parentingblogger #oneyearold
6 days ago
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Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with ZoĂ« taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠
⁠
I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠
⁠
Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠
⁠
#whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
juliebarzman
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Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with ZoĂ« taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠ ⁠ I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠ ⁠ Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠ ⁠ #whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
19 hours ago
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Episode 7 ✹ BelleMaternity Podcast ⁠
⁠
In this episode, I share my (and my partner’s) story of loss, grief, and how our third child, Zoe came to be. I share openly, honestly, and truly – some details that I’ve not discussed before here on The Mommy Codes.⁠
⁠
Follow along, as Jey and I discuss how to navigate through grief, loss, and how to keep on living.⁠
⁠
Link in bio to listen!⁠
⁠
#motherhood #candidmotherhood #perinatalloss #griefjourney #themommycodes
juliebarzman
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Episode 7 ✹ BelleMaternity Podcast ⁠ ⁠ In this episode, I share my (and my partner’s) story of loss, grief, and how our third child, Zoe came to be. I share openly, honestly, and truly – some details that I’ve not discussed before here on The Mommy Codes.⁠ ⁠ Follow along, as Jey and I discuss how to navigate through grief, loss, and how to keep on living.⁠ ⁠ Link in bio to listen!⁠ ⁠ #motherhood #candidmotherhood #perinatalloss #griefjourney #themommycodes
20 hours ago
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Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 

Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special.

#rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special. #rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
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Happy birthday my beautiful girl 🌈 Your brother picked your birthday theme from the day you came home with us, “Mommy, can she have a rainbow birthday?” Yes, darling
 She absolutely can 💕 Thank you to everyone for the birthday wishes and who made her day so very special. #rainbowbaby #happybirthday #oneyearold #babybirthday #babybirthdayparty #rainbowtheme
4 days ago
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March is Rainbow Baby Awareness Month 🌈 and it also happens to be Zozo’s birthday tomorrow

Very little people knew I was pregnant with my rainbow baby last year, on this day I was anxiously getting ready to get induced and praying to come home with her in my arms


If I had to describe what she taught me? Stillness in the present moment. 

Too painful to look back, too uncertain to look forward. I felt like a balloon floating through each moment, supporting my constant “meditative state” - if I’d unravel, I’d notice it was always after getting lost into doing things while putting little thought into it; “coming back” to the present moment as I lost track of time was the most uncomfortable. So many questions rushing through my mind “did she kick?” “When was the last time I felt her” and the anxiety and uncontrollable worries would rise up
I eventually recognized the agonizing pattern and decided to put thought and connection to everything I did, even loading the dishwasher. I was PRESENT. 

One thing I will tell you, no matter how present you are, bringing home a new baby is life changing and rocks the boat no matter how connected you are to all of your desires and surroundings. You have to learn to appreciate the rocking. I had never been so thankful for sleepless nights that weren’t because of grief; You don’t have to be on the other side to fully appreciate the life experience you are having NOW. It sure “helped” me find joy in things that could’ve easily irritate me but that is in a sense, the dark gift of grief, it will teach you kindness and perspective on how everything is Ă©phĂ©mĂšre as we say in French; Short lived. 

So everything becomes precious. It’s hard to not live on the other side of grief; fear. I will admit I still work on that every day. The fear drives me to love harder
but step by step I am learning to see love to love harder.

I love you Zoë. You are fruition of the courage we put into taking a chance despite overwhelming fear
 and one year later, with perspective and stillness, I can see clearly the hope you have given all of us. 

#rainbowbaby #rainbowbaby🌈 #stillbirthawareness #momanddaughter #momtruth #parentingblogger #oneyearold
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March is Rainbow Baby Awareness Month 🌈 and it also happens to be Zozo’s birthday tomorrow Very little people knew I was pregnant with my rainbow baby last year, on this day I was anxiously getting ready to get induced and praying to come home with her in my arms
 If I had to describe what she taught me? Stillness in the present moment. Too painful to look back, too uncertain to look forward. I felt like a balloon floating through each moment, supporting my constant “meditative state” - if I’d unravel, I’d notice it was always after getting lost into doing things while putting little thought into it; “coming back” to the present moment as I lost track of time was the most uncomfortable. So many questions rushing through my mind “did she kick?” “When was the last time I felt her” and the anxiety and uncontrollable worries would rise up
I eventually recognized the agonizing pattern and decided to put thought and connection to everything I did, even loading the dishwasher. I was PRESENT. One thing I will tell you, no matter how present you are, bringing home a new baby is life changing and rocks the boat no matter how connected you are to all of your desires and surroundings. You have to learn to appreciate the rocking. I had never been so thankful for sleepless nights that weren’t because of grief; You don’t have to be on the other side to fully appreciate the life experience you are having NOW. It sure “helped” me find joy in things that could’ve easily irritate me but that is in a sense, the dark gift of grief, it will teach you kindness and perspective on how everything is Ă©phĂ©mĂšre as we say in French; Short lived. So everything becomes precious. It’s hard to not live on the other side of grief; fear. I will admit I still work on that every day. The fear drives me to love harder
but step by step I am learning to see love to love harder. I love you ZoĂ«. You are fruition of the courage we put into taking a chance despite overwhelming fear
 and one year later, with perspective and stillness, I can see clearly the hope you have given all of us. #rainbowbaby #rainbowbaby🌈 #stillbirthawareness #momanddaughter #momtruth #parentingblogger #oneyearold
6 days ago
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Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with ZoĂ« taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠
⁠
I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠
⁠
Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠
⁠
#whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
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Here are things that my (new) doctors while pregnant with ZoĂ« taught me and checked for at every visit.💕⁠ ⁠ I am sharing your very own pregnancy checklist because I truly believe that in every tragedy there is an educational side for others to be shared that could make a difference. ⁠ ⁠ Link in bio for more pregnancy tips! ⁠ ⁠ #whattoaskyourdoctor #yourpregnancychecklist #mygriefjourney #stillbirthsurvivor #pregnancytips #losangelesblogger #momcoaching #healthcareadvocate
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